Ratings and reviews of what must be done before a certain age (18, 20, 25, 40 years) or events (college graduation, marriage) are numerous and varied. To draw wisdom and fill the diary far ahead with them is easy. But what about what you should NOT do, which only harms a woman?
Thirty years is a special milestone, not youth anymore, but blooming maturity and in anticipation of it there are quite a few that are better to limit or exclude.
Perhaps the fact that in the Middle Ages in some countries of Europe fourteen-year-olds possessed a full range of legal rights and obligations and often already conducted merchant affairs would not seem like a convincing argument. Now, indeed, other times and specialists call the age of psychological maturation of a person 25 years of age, or even older ...
But if you really put off adult decisions for a long time and live indefinitely, one day you can just bitterly realize that time is lost. Non-renewable resource.
Therefore, it is better, leaving yourself room for maneuvering, still try to determine as soon as possible with the following:
- what in life you really want to earn a living;
- how you want to spend your free time;
- where you want to live most of the year;
- which are personal values that are not subject to change for all the gold of the world.
According to surveys of people over the age of 30+, the question of a person addressed to himself about who he should become in 3 or 10, 15 years helps to stay on track.
An exception can be made, unless, for real professionals, highly valued by the authorities (which is expressed, of course, in wages and pleasant bonuses).
If this work is needed, let's say bluntly, to provide for urgent needs, then it is better to take care of your prospects as follows:
- choose which professions may be suitable for the future and try to find an opportunity to receive an appropriate education for them;
- in addition, what the heart is striving for, to choose several activities that are simply profitable and try them out in practice, for example, as a part-time job for a couple of months (perhaps, upon closer acquaintance, something will be attractive).
Of course, if the current place is happy with everything, you can plan to work on it as much as you like. But it is important, indeed, to remember that, according to statistics, many manage to build a brilliant career after thirty. And until this time, it turns out, there is time to think a little more, evaluate everything and decide where to put your talents and zeal.
The fresh charm of youth, however sad, pleases a person only up to a certain point. And so is his body - if at twenty-odd years it pleases with forms and good health, this does not mean that his resources are not exhausted at all.
In addition, many diseases (especially chronic) can mature for a long time.
And care products, diets and sports will not begin to produce results in an instant for the body, the biological processes in which, strictly speaking, are in full bloom, but still decline at the same time. All this will give the best effect on the "prepared" base, that is, when the body was given appropriate attention from a young age.
Moreover - plastic surgeons confirm that their services may not be needed if, say, do not hesitate to deal with the first wrinkles already in 25 years.
And it’s not even about the fact that something can happen to a person and he simply won’t have time to live up to his plan. Many psychologists agree that delayed trifles, which seem insignificant against the background of a person’s concerns, once change like this. Firstly, implemented too late, they are no longer so sweet. Secondly, a person is sincerely perplexed that he deprived himself of the beautiful, without having any special reasons for this.
So the desire to run barefoot through a flowering meadow, grow strawberries on a windowsill, learn a love poem in Japanese, buy a straw hat for the summer ... In short, all the little things that seem expensive are worthy of not being put off. And after 30 years, others may simply come in their place.
New images adorn a woman, and world fashion trends are so changeable that it is natural, having the ability to satisfy your desires and regularly update your wardrobe (as well as an assortment of accessories, cosmetics, perfumes). But approaching the age of thirty, a woman, according to the majority of stylists, should gradually determine her basic style and understand well how to use her clothes and make-up to emphasize her strengths and hide her flaws.
Therefore, in the embodiment of his creative fantasies, it is sometimes useful to stop a little and try to correspond for some time in the whole uniform image, the main features of which, probably, you will want to transfer to the future for years to come.
Of course, it is very comfortable to relax without the hassle of everything ready, but independent recreation has many advantages:
- This is a real adventure, providing an unprepared person with a bright, juicy experience, as well as a lot of lessons of independence;
- on long vacations, independent finding of tickets / accommodation can save a lot of money;
- only outside the millions of travel routes / programs can you really get to know the culture of other countries.
An amazing and multifunctional invention of mankind, according to statistics, in practice often becomes a "black hole" of everyday life, destroying free time, for seemingly harmless five-minute activities. To understand whether there are problems with this, it is recommended that you leave the connection with such resources for 24 hours.
If it becomes alarming without objective reasons and suddenly there is time for previously deferred business, then the problem really is in it. Theoretically, the constant use of a smartphone can also be attributed to this.
